It's hardest for the fathers. I've tried to find a dad's group to join but there are precious few about. There are lots of "Moms and..." things, and several lesbian ones I've considered going along to (I am in a relationship with a woman, after all) but apart from that, nothing.
So when Drew had to take the day off to look after his boy Edward, I jumped at the chance to form my Fathers Together group. We needed a supportive environment for our first meeting so chose the Jupiter Brewery in Berkeley. We shared experiences, stories, a plate of ribs and a pizza. We offered each other advice on which beer was better. Someone asked if the babies were twins. Hmm.
That would be the XHP (Xtra Hopped Pale Ale).
I stuck with a classic Hefeweizen.